Common Mistakes That Leaders Commit

Mistakes Leaders CommitFor the past years, I have observed and worked with different managers, team leaders, and coaches. I have observed, and I realized there are consistent errors and management mistakes, which are made routinely. Some of which I have been in fact a victim of these observations.

I thought of sharing a few of the most frequent mistakes that leaders make that could have a detrimental negative impact in the organization’s effectiveness and productivity. My ideas are the result of seeing continuous leadership mistakes that are repeatedly done by team leaders and managers, which cost their organization’s effectiveness, time, and the company’s profits and market share.

No one is perfect. Show me a manager that never makes mistakes and I will show you a manager that is not trying to reach their full potential as a manager or leader. Everyone is exempted to the rule of making the right decision at all times because no one is infallible. I also realized that no one has all negative and all positive attitude or traits. No one practices good judgment 100% at all time. Below are my list that I feel are the most common management mistakes that if ignored over time will have significant consequences on the performance of a department or even an organization.

First, more focused on WHOs and not on Whats, like WHO says it or doesn’t say it, WHO didn’t do it or did it instead of WHAT is the best for the team or WHAT is the best for the organization and its future welfare and health.

Second, not listening to their team or caring for their individual issues, needs, frustrations, and concerns.

Third, their EGO is more important so good decisions, choices, behaviors and actions are taken for granted.

Fourth, they are too arrogant.

Fifth, they have personal agendas that tend to sabotage the effectiveness of employee performance.

Sixth, leaders who perceive people who deliver bad news or offer suggestions that is different from their ideas as poor team players and troublemakers.

Seventh, leaders who are seeking only suggestions, which supports their agenda, views, positions, opinions and perceptions.

Eight, leaders who see disagreements as tot encouraging disagreement or disloyalty.

Ninth, leaders who do not talk to their people who will be affected by decisions before carrying them out.

Tenth, leaders who love to take credit and have the habit of giving blame.

Eleventh, leaders who cannot communicate with honesty, openness, and be consistent in what he delivers.

Twelfth, leaders who cannot consistently delivers feedback of reinforcement and positive appreciation of feedback.

Thirteenth, leaders who have poor coaching abilities.

Fourthteenth, leaders who give responsibility without authorities.

Fifthteenth, leaders who loves to play favorites with certain employees.

Sixthteenth, leaders who do not understand that negative feedback is not to punish employees but to change their behaviors. If you are a leader and you do not understand this, I guess, you need to take a vacation and meditate on this one.

Seventhteenth, leaders who have inadequate and inconsistent training.

Finally, leaders who are not hiring strong candidates that could one day be their replacement.

With these experiences, a true leader is not about the position. It is not about your title. You may be a coach but you are not considered a leader by your team or someone from your team feels he is being left behind. You can be the president of a company but your subordinates do not consider you as a leader.

A leader is someone who can attract people to follow him. People who are willingly will go to his direction and enlist people in because they believe in him.

A Leader Should Lead Not Leave

A Leader Should Lead Not LeaveI have been busy lately on my new project. I am on training for the past 4 weeks now and hopefully, I will back on my regular schedule next week.

I have been in a company where managers and supervisors are called team leaders and not as bosses with big fat belly demanding and commanding. However, in spite of the good concept of having leaders and not bosses does not resolve office issues like employees being frustrated because of mismanagement or because of having incapable leaders.

I, myself, feel frustrated and depressed on how my leaders lead us sometimes. For the past 6 years of my experience in working in an ISP provider company, I have realized that there is a thin line between the responsibility of a leader and the responsibility of a lover to his loved one.

You might ask why for all of the analogies that I could have used, why do I associate a leader’s responsibility to that of a lover’s?

A Leader should get the confidence of his team, just like a lover making his loved one to believe in him. He should let his team see that he is a capable man. He should let his team know that they are part of his dreams, like a lover where he assures his loved one that he has dreams and his loved one is part of that dream.

He must make his team feel that for every success he achieves, his loved one is a contributor, bringing her with his success and fame. He must be reassuring enough to convince his team that he is part of their life and that he will never leave them in times of distress. Like a husband assuring his wife that no matter how hard life can be, he will still be there for her and will draw strength from each other.

A leader should give his loyalty to his team as much as he wants his team to be loyal to him. Like a loyal lover who will never forsake a loved one. If all leaders would act like lovers to their team, I am sure that his team could survive and excel even in the midst of uncertainty. Would you agree?

My Luxurious Sunday

luxurious Sunday

My favorite part of the week is Sunday. It is the day of the week where I do not do anything except sleep, eat, and play with Chesca, my 2-year-old daughter. Today, all I did was sleep. Although I am a little bit guilty because I need to finish a writing project, but what the heck…I shut my mind on that little voice inside me that keeps on reminding me to stand up, open the computer, and work! I resisted that little voice and just stretched out lazily on my bed. It’s already summer and usually the temperature tends to rise up to a sizzling 34 degrees Celsius. This afternoon, the climate was around 30 degrees Celsius, which I think contributed to my laziness. All I wanted was to lie back in bed and sleep. Good thing I have an ac to cool my room a little bit. But even the ac in my room seems to be affected with the hot weather, as it tends to hum coarsely every 5 minutes. :-)

Timorous Annual Physical Exam

I had my physical exam today. I am as always apprehensive of the first step, which is getting pricked by a pen like needle on my index finger. The nurse is the same person who pricks me every annual PE for the past 5  years. It always gives me discomfort to be pricked. I’d rather have an injection rather than being pricked by a pen like needle. I feel that it is more painful to be pricked by a thin needle in my index finger than being injected in the arm.

Timorous Annual Physical Exam

I already skipped my PE last February hoping I would be able to escape it. Unfortunately,  our company nurse emailed me last week reminding me that I need to take my PE today. Reluctantly, I headed to our company’s recreation hall where the medical team for our annual PE were set up. Timidly I sat on the chair where the nurse performs the first step – pricking the index finger to get blood sample. As soon as I gave him my hand, he got the dreaded pen like needle and without any warning….pak! Ahhhoouuuch!
It’s almost an hour now but I can still feel my pulse on my index finger. Sniff….sniff….

Handling a Difficult Child

There are times when Joanne Reilly feels as if she has been locked in a battle of wills with her 3 ½ year old daughter for, well, three and a half years. … continue reading this entry.

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